Us people sometimes think staying silence is best for some situations. And for some situations it is… but mostly for the others. Did you ever think what would happen if you said does words in that argument, what would happen when you realized they got you the wrong food you told them instead of staying silence or when you didn’t opened up to the boy you liked because you were afraid. I did…
I’m not saying that I regret everything that I did not say but I do curious about what would happen if I did spoke. I remember that some old people always told me stay silent in an argument, always keep your calm, may the greatness remain with you. At first I didn’t question it but then it started to bother me… Why was it the right choice to stay silent? I am a fourteen year old girl and I haven’t experienced many things in life but I have had boys I liked, I have experienced heartbreaks, I have had fights, I have made new friends. My biggest fear has always been what if I look back and regret not doing it or saying it. That’s why I always told a boy about my feelings when I liked him, I admit it didn’t always end well but now when I look back at those times I have no regrets. I always say I’m glad I said the words that got stuck in my throat, I’m glad I talked about my feelings and thoughts. Of course I didn’t say everything that came to my mind but I always tried to find a way to explain it with the right language.
Sometimes we think for more than five minutes about things that will not affect us five years from now. This tires us and starts to occupy our minds constantly. But one of the things that tires us the most is the words we don’t say. We always think about what the other person would say in response. How would it be, how would my future change? Thinking tires people. Why do we choose to imagine some things in our minds when we can get answers to them? Not everything that comes to mind is said, but everything that comes to mind can be expressed with the appropriate language. So don’t stay silent because every silence you keep causes a scream inside you.