Dear Elderly Family Member ,
I would like to start of by saying that, I know the fact that a lot of people living back in time had definitly had harder responsibilities than now our generation do. I heard so many stories about how was life back then from old people and all I can say is that a lot of them were not really positive. I understand people in that aspect but I also dont think that the way they lived before doesnt give them a reason to jugde our generation this bad.
I had a lot of frirends ,also me, getting jugded or getting bullied just by the way they are dressed. I definitly agree that there is some rules while being dressed in certain places but publicly shaming people because they wore something that is unusual for you in normal life is clearly wrong. Everyone has a diffirent style and we all represent ourselves wtih the way we are dressed ,with our hair, makeup etc. Just because you think a girl is dressing inappropiate does not give you right to call her out in public places. This is also same with how young generation talking. I am actually so happy about the way this generation broke out the cycle and trying to stand up for themselves. I know this because whenever I see a young person getting ranted about something they always try to explain themselves and not be shy about it. As far as I know back in time these situations were not like this, you had to obey whatever they were saying to you just because they were older than you. Since old people grew up couldnt stand up for themselves, they also dont want us to stand up for ourselves too which makes me really irritated. If I were them , I would be happy that young people got to do this finally.
And this is what I want to say to my older family members, I understand you really well but I am also expecting you to undertand me too. Time has changed and the standarts are very different what it was back in time . Just because someone younger than you doesnt think the way that you think does not make them someone who is disrespectful. I know that If we both try hard to understand each oher , we can get through these problems..