Every person starts life unaware of everything. Therefore, people have no place in their lives to get information other than their families, who have been with them since they started living. In short, a baby who has just come to life will not find anyone to take an example from other than his family. However, this process is limited only to infancy. As they start to get older, people also introduce other individuals other than their families into their lives. That’s exactly why people’s characters are not exactly the same as family members.
These people that individuals take into their lives sometimes seem so interesting that individuals do everything they can to own the characters, lives, assets of these people. Because it is curious. Their parents have never treated them in such a way. Therefore, they are unaware of how they will react to this treatment.
Why did I say all these words? Can’t people act according to their own characters? Don’t they have their own minds, their own will? Before you question them, I would like to repeat this. Can you imagine that a newborn baby has a will? The answer is no, isn’t it? So a baby has no choice but to copy his parents’ attitude, and that’s right, isn’t it? What I’m trying to say is that: it’s human nature to copy an attitude, a word, a trait. You may think that this applies only to a baby. But this would be a very erroneous idea. I would like to ask, have you ever repeated the special words said by someone who has been with you for a long time, you have spent time with him, have you given his reactions on certain issues? Even if it happened, it’s very natural. Because whoever is with us adds new features to our character.
As a result, a person keeps many people with him from birth to death. All of these people also leave traces in the character of people. Some are small, some are large tracks. In this context, copying someone’s character cannot be considered as a betrayal of one’s self.