There are four prerequisites for a happy, successful life. The first is about being a good person. Become a higher version. Become the person you dream of being. Be the best person you can be. Of course, don’t waste your time proving them to anyone, don’t try to please everyone. Live for yourself. There is a saying: “The way of the good heart is always open.” So we can say that the key of having a happy and successful life is to be a good person first.
Secondly; I have never seen a person who has problembs with her/his family and is happy, in my life. Our family should be worth more than aything . Our priority should always be our family. A person who has problems with his/her family cannot be happy, whether he/she has a dream school, a lover, or a lot of friend. Let him say that I am happy and having fun as much as I want. In fact, he/she will always be feel regretful about something, about her/his family…
Third, it is about talking ideas, not people. Have an social environment where you talk about science, ethics, philosophy, books, art, production, dreams, future, space. Research, dream, explore! If you are only talking about people, not these things, change your social environment. Because your social environment can change your lifestyle, thoughts, behaviors and even your life a lot.
Finally whatever you are going through, accept it and move on. Focus on the solution or start over! You don’t start from scratch, this time you start with experience. It is impossible to go back and make a new start, but it is still possible to make a new ending and start again today. And it should not fotgotten that sometimes things have to end for the better beginnings. Life goes on. Life moves ahead of you, not behind.
As a result, a happy and successful life does not happen by chance or gets better by chance, it gets better as a result of change. Happiness or success does not fall from the sky. Trust your inner hope that you will have a happy and successful life and a future.