The most remarkable masterpiece of an individual is the way they look at the world and the way they walk on it. We are always different and distinct in our way of thought and that’s why it is never possible to have the same perception of reality. How people behave is the reflection of their thoughts and themselves. I don’t have the authority to diagnose someone but I can tell modern humanity is suffering from several new diseases of the soul without a doubt.
In the first place, we have forgotten that we are alive and that comes with responsibilities. We complain a lot about minor stuff that doesn’t really affect anything rather than our comfort. We should be able to step outside our narrow orbit and take a more generous view of our connection with the rest of the existence. We let others set us a wall that controls what we can and can’t do. We have romanticised so many things we don’t even realise how big their damage is to our society. For instance, what people think about our appearance or ideas shouldn’t affect our actions. It is hard to not care about what others think of you, but if you can manage to do that, you can do better in life.
However, we can judge other people too. Not only caring if others judge you but not judging others is something healthy to do for yourself as well. Open-minded people literally see the world differently. First of all, they don’t judge everything they see. And having the ability to not judge certain stuff and move on with your life should be a default future for everyone but unfortunately, it is not. We are constantly surrounded by sensory input. The mind has to filter out the noise and choose what to focus on. And focusing on other insecurities is a poor choice to spend your time.
People don’t always have the time they assume to have. So realising what’s really important in life must be a number one priority for someone who claims to enjoy life or wants to have a say in their future. There is no such thing as destiny. People should be able to write their own destinies. It is a fact that we don’t always know the consequences of some things we do. However, it is we who make those decisions and we should be the ones who face these consequences. How someone reacts to unexpected consequences and how they act towards them shows what kind of a person they are.
In conclusion, it is simply your view of what is out there from your own limitations or vantage point. Personality isn’t something that is fixed. You can always change yourself for the better. You can try to improve your understanding of an issue, be open-minded, and don’t settle only for the information you have and widen your perception.