Nowadays, people are not happy and they are seeking happiness in everything but themselves. People think that buying a new piece of clothing would make them feel better but I think that short-lasting happiness is meaningless. So, I will be prescribing a receipt for long-lasting happiness in this article of mine.
Happiness is a combination of how satisfied you are with your life and how good you feel on a day-to-day basis. Both of these are relatively stable—that is, our life changes and our mood fluctuates, but our general happiness is more genetically determined than anything else. The good news is, with consistent effort, this can be offset. But in terms of that effort what should we do?
- Accept yourself
This may sound like more of a long-term fix, but this helps our mood on a daily basis.
Stop comparing yourself to others, you are a wonderful human being and all the happiness you are looking for is within you.
If you catch yourself criticising yourself or putting yourself down, switch it around and think about something that you value about yourself instead.
- Find joy in the little things
- Smile! 🙂
Smiling not only does boost our mood but it also has some effects on our body. Smiling activates neural brain circuits associated with well-being and happiness. It also feels good to smile, especially when you do it regularly.
Along with those, smiling also makes other people smile and feel happier. Our mirror neurones copy the actions of the person in front of us and if you smile you actually trigger people’s neurones which makes them smile.
- Identify and use your individual strengths
Realizing your potential is by far the most important thing to achieve in life. Provided that you know what you are good at, you can focus on those things and specialize in them. Hereby, you will not waste time drowning in thoughts about what to do in life and you will avoid those negative concepts.
- Go on a walk
For one thing, the physical act of exercise releases endorphins in your brain that elevate mood and make you feel better.
Also, intertwining yourself with nature will relieve stress and clear up your mind. So, combining these two and doing it on a weekly basis will be a life changer.
- Reflect on your blessings and be grateful
- Become distant to miserable people
This may sound selfish but it is scientifically proven that if you are encountered with sad people, there is no way that you will not be affected. So, try to choose the people around you wisely. Always try to boost your moods with friends.
Bibliography:
- https://www.happify.com/hd/what-is-happiness-anyway/
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