Humans are social creatures. We all have friends, a family. A person that we can talk to when we feel bad. Or a person that we can share memories with. It feels good to know that you’re not alone in the world. Can you imagine a world that you are the only human left? There’s nobody in the whole world, not a single soul. How does it feel? It would probably feel bad. But it can also feel good too. You can do whatever you want, go wherever you want to go. Buy whatever you want. Do you want a new car? You can go and own a Lamborghini without giving a single amount of money. But we have to put this dream aside. Because this situation probably won’t happen.
Let’s just imagine being alone in a world full of people. You can always find a person to talk to, to have fun with. But you don’t want anybody because being alone feels good. The world feels like it belongs to you. You can do whatever you want and nobody would judge you. Nobody would say anything to you. You’re alone and you don’t have to inform anybody about your life, about your goals.
To be honest, this can feel good. But at the same time, it may not feel good too. Every human in the world is different. Some of them like to be alone, some of them like to meet with friends every day. Chat with someone about their life or when they feel bad about something, give some life advice or take some life advice. This is how relationships work. The world might be boring without someone to share memories with. But who knows, it might be fun too?
Loneliness is a choice. You can enjoy the silence, going for a walk by yourself, listening to music in a quiet place, or reading a book. You can also enjoy partying with your friends, having long dinners with family, going on a trip with a person you love. Being lonely is not a bad or a good thing. It’s a way to live your life.