A person shapes their own life. There are choices and different ways a person can shape their lives. In the end, the consequences of your choices and actions can not be so-called “destiny.”
Under the same circumstances, a person can be healthy, wealthy, and wise, or the exact opposite. This is about not giving up on their life and accepting what they have. Your life and yourself are like a house because if you do not like what your house looks like, you can constantly renovate it, but you would not break your walls down like it is some puzzle because a puzzle may have a way of its return, your house does not have that. Neither do your life and you.
The most remarkable masterpiece of an individual is how they look at the world and walk on it. Utilizing shaping life as mentioned above, we walk on the world we see, and we accept the faith we think we deserve, so if a person is under challenging circumstances and has no will to make their life better, their life will not get better. There is a thing called determination, and when you have the determination plus strong belief in yourself, no matter the circumstances you are under, you shape your own life.
I believe the human mind is capable of succeeding in anything with the person’s will. Rather than circumstances, self-trust and determination are much more important when you have an aim in this life. Wishing that you had more suitable circumstances will not change anything but decrease your motivation for what you are aiming for. Using your available circumstances efficiently always gets you ahead.
To sum up, everything that has been stated so far, our circumstances do not alter whether we have a successful, happy, healthy life or not, we do. On the other hand, it is also unreasonable to blame our condition for what we are in the end. We are the center of our life, so there is nothing else that can shape our life rather than us.