Be Yourself, Have Your Own Life

As you know, every person has a personality. What makes a person say to himself “I am this” is the things he chooses with his will and the actions he makes.
Your actions already determine your personality. Humans begin to develop slowly from the moment they are born. This development may occur with environmental factors or reflexes. The feature that distinguishes man from other living things is his mind. Now, with the will of each person using his will differently, his life and way of living are determined. As you know, with the developing technology, people can now present their lives to other people through social media. While making this presentation, sometimes people can show their lives very well as if they are traveling the whole world and living the most famous, beautiful and fun life. There is nothing stopping them from doing this. Now let’s think; Everyone knows that man is a creature with flaws. Nobody is perfect. But the life that some people publish can be perfect, think of a person trying to imitate this life, do you think a person who always tries to have fun and tries to be the “best” can achieve this? Of course not, we are not robots after all. A person who tries to copy a person’s life that seems to be perfect will not be able to realize it, so he always feels like a person who is incomplete, flawed and can never reach the level of other people. This situation lowers the self-confidence of that person and negatively affects the quality of life. Apart from this, I think it is extremely absurd to copy the life of a person who also shows his faults. Because what makes you you anyway is the decisions we make and your attitude towards a situation. If you adjust your decisions like a different person, life has no meaning and you ignore its features that you do not know. You can’t do it anyway, it’s impossible. In short, every person should be himself, only the point that you should care about others is the common good characteristics and discipline of successful people. Be yourself, have your own life.