Is The Influence Of a Person’s Effort or The Enviroment Is More Dominant?

 

“Society, family, and system have little influence on the achievement of one’s goals. The human being can get to where they want to be through their own efforts.” This sentence is very open to debate and from people to people the persepcitves can vary in such different ways.

At the very begging I want to look at why people agree or disagree by empathizing without taking sides.

If we consider that a person disagrees with this sentence:A family is one of the biggest role players in a child’s life,especially at a young age, have the effort to implement whatever they see from their family elders.We will understand that our behaviors in front of our kids are so so important.It could effect our kids in a positve or negative way according to our behaviors. To give an example of this imagine that a dad who is just behaving unacceptable like;smoking,saying slang words… in front of his kids.They would just emulate their dad as excatly same as he does.But when you think just the opposite of himself they would again emulate but their behaviors will be in such a good way.I gave this example because it is in a person’s nature to be influenced by those around him or her, and this deeply affects all decisions in persons life. These examples I gave are also related to social life and the establishment of the system around you, because it is your family and your environment that establish this system for you and enable the formation for your life.

And lets consider it from a person who agrees with this sentence: No matter who is around a person in his or her life, no matter who influences, there is no way he or she can achieve success unless  makes any effort. A person is of course affected by his or her family, environment and even the system she or he is in, but if there is no effort there is no point either.

And finally, if we come to my opinion, I agree with this sentence because, as I mentioned above, if a person does not make any effort and strive;the family, social life and the system they are in will have no meaning at all.

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