In fact, when a person, something we need, is not in our lives for a long time, we feel its lack. And we feel sorry for it. But something we never had is not necessary or important to us. If it was necessary or important, we would not be able to live without that person or thing. Sometimes we want something too much, we strive to make it happen, we try, but if it doesn’t happen even after trying so hard, over time we start to get tired of this action, item, person.
Because we see that we can continue our life without that person, the item. We only understand that we are dependent or obsessed with it. Although it is very difficult to accept this situation at first, we accept or get used to it. Actually, accepting and getting used to it are quite different. When we accept something, we do it voluntarily. For example, when our opinion is asked about something, we can give the answer we want, positive or negative. Answer. But when it comes to getting used to, the situation is very different. We get used to a thing or a person because we have to get used to it. But the result is the same, we begin to live without that person or thing. This period of acceptance and adaptation is sometimes a very difficult and very long process.
Because we have encountered something very different from what we have created in our minds, its name is REAL. At the same time, the process of acceptance and adaptation can be very short and easy because we feel like we have woken up from a short dream, although the dreams are very beautiful, the feeling of meeting reality outweighs because we know that this dream is not real. That is, we accept the absence of something that we have never had or that is always missing. And we realize that we no longer need that person or thing. That’s why it starts to seem unnecessary.
“The person who is always missing, the thing is useless anyway.”