We have a problem in the modern world. Every time there is a part that is confident or considers itself inferior. People allow their own wishes and thoughts to despise themselves without thinking, so that others will not be upset or offended. The main problem is that confident people do these things. Those who do not trust, however, do not do what they say for themselves, but because they care for themselves, and thus make themselves used.
We have grown up in a way that connects our self-worth to our ideas too much. It seems that we are forced to create a position and then hold it. This opinion-based division is everywhere; Republican or Democrat? Is the Dress Gold and Blue? Pineapple on pizza? Is it Breastfed or Bottled?Is it expensive or cheap? Is it a brand or not? You need to hold tight to one or the other and not change your mind. Changing your mind is weak, sitting on the fence is weak-minded. If someone challenges your opinion with reliable evidence and valid arguments, shame begins to rise up inside you and you become defensive. This needs to stop, it’s caustic and provocative, we need to increase our mental flexibility. We need more humility. But situations do not happen like that. the more we care about people, when we do what they say out of our kindness of heart, when we support them, they start to get on top of us more. because what we’re doing is feeding their ego and saying, “I’m very good.” it makes them think like.
Arrogant and egotistical people, if they are a little talented, immediately think of themselves as being of a higher order than others. But if you don’t have these characteristics, you need to be humble directly, or at least we should look like we are humble to others. Psychological research has found that when people seem less competent than they believe when their self-image is more positive than others’ opinions of them they will probably be less popular and successful. In other words, confidence and assertiveness can be adapted only if they are supported proportionally to competence. Therefore, it is better for us to look competent than confident, even if it means imitating modesty. That’s why we should always believe in ourselves, not in those around us. “This is who I am.” we should be able to say.
Since there is no one important in this world but us, our own wishes should always be at the forefront. we should live this life for ourselves, not for others. That’s why we should never humiliate ourselves and love ourselves. The reason for these humiliations is due to the fact that we love ourselves and lack self-confidence. But there is one thing that no one can crush you in this world. The more you go over them, the more you make your voice, they will already take a step back. In some cases, no matter how important he is to me, no matter how much we say let’s take him down, we are actually hurting ourselves. Because this situation is increasing more and more, and we are no longer able to get out of it, but we are staying unhappily where we are.
In short, we should take care of ourselves. We should never compromise ourselves for someone else and put ourselves in small situations. We should take care of ourselves when we do something, we should do it not because he likes it, but because I like it. Let others do something for you. Because the time for this has already come.